Defining Character


Choose Small and Slow Solutions, Create Vision and Respond to Change, From Pattern to Details, Inner Permaculture, Observe and Interact, Parenting, People Care, Permaculture Ethics, Permaculture Principles, Self-Regulate and Accept Feedback

There have been several occasions when people have made comments to me about how the personalities of my children are related to the order in which they were born into our family.  I resisted this idea, thinking that the stereotypes and reductionism of this approach are not helpful.  Not only that but I have a […]

July 14, 2015

To the well meaning man at the library…


Choose Small and Slow Solutions, Cultivate Diversity, Don't Segregate, Inner Permaculture, Integrate, Life Choices, Maximize the Edges, Observe and Interact, Obtain a Yield, Parenting, People Care, Permaculture Ethics, Self-Regulate and Accept Feedback

Dear Sir, Thank you for taking the time to stop me to address your concern for young children using computers.  You took the time to engage with our family even though your sentiment wasn’t clear when you were lurking around the children’s computers glancing at my children then around the library while I was trying […]

July 9, 2015

Life without Complaining


Catch and Store Energy, Create Vision and Respond to Change, Inner Permaculture, People Care, Permaculture Ethics, Permaculture Principles, Self-Regulate and Accept Feedback

It always seems like there’s something to complain about.  Today, it’s the weather.  A rainy day which is providing fresh water to our ground sources for drinking, to the crops and gardens that will nourish us through the winter, and the living systems that generate oxygen from our carbon emissions.  So is the rain really […]

July 7, 2015

Pushed and Pulled by Change


Create Vision and Respond to Change, Cultivate Diversity, Inner Permaculture, Obtain a Yield, Permaculture Principles

Pushed or pulled, either way I move.  Does it matter what force caused the change when the end result is movement?  How comfortable it seems to remain still.  But like water, if I’m not circulating, flowing, moving, I will stagnate.  Change is inevitable.  It is what sustains life.  Without embracing adaptation, I might as well […]

July 3, 2015

Top 10 Permaculture Parenting Tips


Catch and Store Energy, Choose Small and Slow Solutions, Create Vision and Respond to Change, Cultivate Diversity, Earth Care, Fair Share, Food, From Pattern to Details, Inner Permaculture, Life Choices, Make No Waste, Maximize the Edges, Observe and Interact, Obtain a Yield, Parenting, People Care, Permaculture Ethics, Permaculture for Children, Permaculture Principles, Self-Regulate and Accept Feedback, Use and Value Gifts from Nature

When I think about what it means to me to be a ‘Permaculture Parent’ I feel that it really is defined by my approach to life.  Looking for ways to live more in line with the Permaculture principles is a way of approaching life.  When I change, those around me change.  When I learn, those […]

June 29, 2015

Enabling Reacting


Choose Small and Slow Solutions, Inner Permaculture, Maximize the Edges, Observe and Interact, People Care, Permaculture Ethics, Permaculture Principles, Self-Regulate and Accept Feedback

I have received a few big news events via email over the past couple of weeks.  I wanted to fire off an email immediately to participate in the conversation and share my initial reactions to these pieces of news, but stopped myself.  If I hastily send something, I often regret what I did or didn’t […]

June 24, 2015

Strawberry Rhubarb Apple Fruit Leather


Catch and Store Energy, Food, Inner Permaculture, Make No Waste, Obtain a Yield, Permaculture for Children, Permaculture Principles, Recipie

Summer has arrived, and so has an abundance of fruit!  I am so excited to be preserving fruit from our land for the coming winter months.  We have collected rhubarb and strawberries and wanted to preserve what we’re unable to eat fresh.  I have been freezing berries whole and unwashed, so they don’t stick together.  […]

June 22, 2015

Missing Out


Consumerism, Cultivate Diversity, From Pattern to Details, Inner Permaculture, Life Choices, Maximize the Edges, Observe and Interact, Parenting, People Care, Permaculture for Children, Permaculture Principles, Self-Regulate and Accept Feedback, Unschooling, Use and Value Gifts from Nature

The downside of a digitized culture is that it makes it so easy to feel like we’re ‘missing out’ on things.  Here I find another place where I’m unlearning what has been bestowed upon me.  I will on occasion experience feelings of loss because of the choices we’re making as a family to diverge from […]

June 19, 2015

Goal Oriented


Choose Small and Slow Solutions, Create Vision and Respond to Change, From Pattern to Details, Inner Permaculture, Integrate, Don't Segregate, Parenting, Permaculture Principles, Self-Regulate and Accept Feedback, Unschooling

I am currently struggling with my lack of defined goals for the future.  Now that I’m a stay-at-home unschooling mom, I feel lost at times, wanting there to be some sort of tangible short term goal to reach.  There isn’t one.  And as far as my children’s education is concerned, I don’t want there to […]

June 16, 2015

Having Patience in Desperate Times


Choose Small and Slow Solutions, Create Vision and Respond to Change, Inner Permaculture, Observe and Interact, Obtain a Yield, Parenting, People Care, Permaculture Ethics, Permaculture Principles

I often get so impatient with the amount of time it takes to change.  I often feel the need to have things already ‘just so.’  Our culture strives for and cultivates illusions of perfection; something people can never attain.  What this elusive striving leaves me with is a sense that I’m not already doing great […]

June 10, 2015